5 Simple Ways to Get Back With Your Ex

Relationships are very fragile bonds that need to be built and maintained in order to keep them healthy and allow them to blossom. But unfortunately,break ups do happen. And we all know that they are very nerve racking, stressful and frustrating. If you are involved in a break up,you may be wondering the simplest way to get your ex back  but what is really the best step to take? Well, here are 5 simple ways to get back with your ex and I'm sure that at least one will work for any of you.

1. Be strong! No one needs the needy, and this saying applies to all broken relationships. So stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is desperate. Let your ex believe that you are just fine without them by acting strong and making them believe you can make it without them.

2.  Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may be the key to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when trying to get your ex back. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your relationship was.

3. Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.

4. Get back out there! This is no time for you to be alone! Call up your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social life without your ex and enjoy some entertainment in your life. This does not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be helpful for you, but it will also help your ex see that they lost something..You!

5. Be yourself. There was definitely a good reason why you and your ex had a relationship to start with, so just go back to being yourself and allow your ex to remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.